JUNE 8 "I'M SOOO MUCH COOLER ON LINE"
It's Sunday morning at 6AM,
and Dutch Hoorenbeek rolls out of bed to check on his strip club and do some
renovations to an outside party deck. He then fires several tenants in his mall
for not paying rent, signs up four new ones, and transports to his office to
spend some time with his wife, Tenaj Jackelope. The thing is, in real life,
Dutch Hoorenbeek is actually Ric Hoogestraat, a call-center operator making $14
an hour. He's also married to Sue Hoogestraat, not Tenaj Jackelope. Confusing?
It should be. Turns out that Ric and Sue's marriage is on the rocks. She
contends that he spends more time online in HIS Second Life, a virtual universe
currently home to 30 million players, with his online wife. Sue spends her days
in front of the television, while Ric is in the other room running a virtual
night club and consorting with his online wife, sometimes for as long as 14
hours at a time on weekends. Although
Sue Hoogestraat has attended "gaming widow" support groups, she sees
no way out. "Basically, the other person is widowed," she told the
Wall St. Journal. "This other life is so wonderful; it's better than real
life. Nobody gets fat, nobody gets gray. The person that's left can't compete
with that." Ric believes that what
he's doing is harmless. "It's just a game," he says. Experts,
however, have found most recently that feelings that people have online -connections
with other virtual characters, loss, friendship, and even love -- are in fact
real emotions, and humans don't have the ability to switch off between what
they feel on- and off-line.
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